
I can't imagine a better setting to exchange our vows.. Glacier Park, Montana USA. From the very beginning of our relationship Jessica and I have shared and absolute undying love for this place and its wildness and wonder.
The original plan, decided months before was to have Oliver Meister, respected owner of the North Fork Hostel perform the service. Oliver is not only an ordained minister, but is the kindest of souls and represents much of what our ideal life would look like.. Living in a wild place, off the grid at a slower pace in the shadows and sunbeams of absolute splendor. Oliver graciously agreed to perform the service without knowing much at all about Jessica and myself.
But as the date grew closer, it became more apparent that the logistics of getting ourselves up to his remote location after all the summer visitors would be exceedingly difficult. While we were intent on keeping this ceremony simple, we did not want it rushed or totally stressful. We made the mutual decision to alter the plan and have our friends Keith and Lila perform the ceremony. I think Oliver was relieved although I'm sure he would have made a remarkable officiant. Hopefully he can break in his license soon!
After leaving the Marks family, Jessica and I headed east towards Many Glacier early so we could procure a campsite which can be difficult in August. We got a beautiful site and were soon met by Keith and Lila. We set up camp and began what would be a weekend full of wonderful hikes and good company.
After hikes to the many lakes in the Swiftcurrent Valley and to Grinnel Glacier, we chose a location where I had seen a Grizzly bear two days before while perched on a large rock. The location was somewhat hidden from the main trail but still close enough to the campground so as to not be a major expedition.
The day of the ceremony was beautiful. The weather was perfect- sunny and warm with slight breeze. When we arrived at the rock I immediately spotted two large Grizzly bears on the hillside behind us. They were a perfect addition to our wedding experience.

Keith opened with kind words about us and the Park... and thoughts of those who could not also join us that day. I spread a token scattering of my father's ashes and we moved into the ceremony. We started by each say a few words to each other- loosely edited and from the heart. We recited a group of vows/promises from the Hindu tradition and exchanged rings to become husband and wife. There were words of congratulations, hugs and tears. It was a wonderful, wonderful event- all the while, Lila faithfully performing her duty as photographer, videographer, maid of honor and flower girl.





Shortly after the ceremony, we parted ways so we could all have time to reflect. Jessica and I headed up the drainage to see if we could find those bears! I assume Keith and Lila headed back to camp but we'll never know. :-)
We were treated that evening to wedding cake so thoughtfully cradled from Missoula, all the while kept on ice and in perfect shape. It was a wonderful luxury in an otherwise spartan camp..
We would both like to thank our two wonderful friends. They went above and beyond the call of duty.. This was short notice for them but you never would have known it. We thank Keith for artfully, fulfilling his obligation as head officiant, dutch oven extraordinaire and all around creative force. There was no doubt in my mind that he would find the kindest of words and soundest of advice he did not fail. And to Lila for her logistical support and reasoned approach to this event... With out her skillfully donning at least a half a dozen hats, this could not have been as special as it was.
And thank you to all of our wonderful friends and family from both coasts and at many points in between for your love and support. We are sorry that we could not have everyone join us. We plan on having many "mini-receptions" in the future so that you all may be a part of it too.
And lastly, for those of you who share our passion for coordinates, enter in the coordinates from the title to Google Earth and see the spot for yourself..
We love you all!
Deke and Jessica